'We have officially adopted her brother': A couple set out to rescue one kitten but ended up welcoming a bonded pair and filling their home with twice the love and purrs

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    'She's bonded with her brother, who's also up for adoption'
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    Hi everyone, My partner and I are in the process of adopting a kitten from out of state. She's absolutely perfect, sweet, playful, and we've been preparing for weeks to welcome her into our home.
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    However, after speaking more with the foster mother, I recently found out that she's bonded with her brother, who's also up for adoption. This information wasn't disclosed to us earlier by the rescue agency, and now I'm feeling really conflicted.
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    We currently both have hybrid jobs, so we're home part of the week but not all the time. We had only planned (and budgeted) for one cat, especially since this is our first time adopting. The agency told us adopting both would cost an additional $250, and we're trying to be realistic about the ongoing expenses of having two cats - food, vet care, insurance, etc.
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    From photos and videos, the kittens do play and sleep together, but I'm not sure whether it's true "bonded pair" behavior or just normal sibling closeness. I don't want to separate them if it would cause distress, but I also want to make a responsible decision that we can sustain long-term.
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    Two cats sleeping together
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    Has anyone here adopted one kitten from a bonded pair? How did it go? Did your cat adjust okay to being solo with enough love and attention? Or would you recommend adopting both if possible?
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    Any insight or personal experiences would really help - I'm feeling torn about what's best for everyone.
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    Update My partner and I appreciate the feedback this community has given us and we took into consideration everyone's experiences and thoughts on this matter.
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    With that said, we have officially adopted her brother! The rescue offered us a reduced cost on the application fee as well. We'll be following up on their progress and are very excited to get them both! A little nervous but that's expected haha we'll share an update later on once we get them and thank you again
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    Black and white cat in front of a adopt don't shop sign
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    Gotta-Be-Me-65 From everything I've read, it's better that kittens come in twos. If they're bonded, I don't seee how you have a choice. The kitten will really miss the companionship. I think you ought to get them both.
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    erasethenoise Get both. It's really not that much extra work to have two vs one. They will play and keep each other company when you aren't home. You won't regret getting both.
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    famousanonamos You're almost always better off having 2 kittens. They are extremely active and need to play. If you are busy or not home, they will have each other to play with. They will also snuggle together and may let you sleep sometimes. They can definitely get lonely and it will probably be worse if you separate a bonded pair.
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    DarkHorseAsh111 Kittens do a lot better with a buddy and this one has a built-in buddy.
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    watermelon_migr... If you can see yourself eventually getting two, do it now. We started with one, and wished we had began with two. Our oldest wasn't thrilled about having a new brother, it took 4 months for him to actually accept him. It was such a big stress on all of us
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    PaintTrick8217 Definitely adopt the bonded kitten. Two cats do so much better than one
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    elopewith_me Most cats do better in pairs in general. Yours already has a sibling he loves - I'd very much recommend adopting both. - Or look at adopting a cat that doesn't care about other cats. But most kittens do want a friend to play with.
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    Sorry-Wealth5806 I would highly recommend adopting the second kitten, especially if you have no other cat already. If they are a bonded pair, then it will be very hard, if not impossible for them to separate from each other. It will also make the kitten phase less devilish if they have another friend to play with.
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    My babies are bonded pairs and I couldn't imagine separating them. They are besties and love hanging out and playing with each other. Definitely adopt them both if you are able to! In general, the litter and kibble expenses do not increase heavily from one cat to another, and having two kittens definitely saves your sanity!
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    More-Opposite17... Two kittens is actually easier than one because they entertain each other and wear each other out. Uts down on their boredom.
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    not_originalusern... if you're not home a lot it's probably best to get two anyway since kittens don't do well being left alone

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